While back in Utah over the holidays I heard a remark about the Mormon church that I used to hear a lot when I was younger: “The Church is true (or good, perfect—there are several variations), but the people in it aren’t.” I remember a friend of mine reciting that same phrase and I answered by saying that I felt the exact opposite—“the Church isn’t good, but some of the people in it are”. He took offense. In other words, he found it okay for non-Mormons to dislike individual Mormons or even the entire Mormon community, but intolerable to critique the church itself—the institution. At the time, my friend’s reaction surprised me, but it shouldn't have. It makes sense that if you put your faith in systems rather than people—and if your sense of selfhood is contingent upon that faith—you’re bound to blame the latter when things go awry. (Other people are “other” but the system is part of you). Consequently, it’s deemed okay to insult your equals—the people—but an extreme act of hubris to take on your superiors—the system and its caretakers.
As a result, it’s PC to hate individual Muslims—I mean terrorists—but not okay to challenge Islam; the problem of obesity is linked obviously to lifestyle “choices” rather than systemic environmental manipulation; and every problem from illegal immigration to drug abuse can be solved with disciplinary police enforcement rather than structural reorganization. The problem isn’t with the machine; it’s just a few bad parts. Accordingly, we have hope. If we can just teach individuals to act a little more responsibly, the problems will go away; progress will continue unabated, and our potency, and thereby our autonomy, will be preserved. The belief that we truly can shape our own destinies and have all the things the system tells us we desire--and the belief that the system is capable of reform--is kept intact. Simultaneously, our authentic self is buried beneath a pile of false needs and false hopes, and the status quo is protected. The victim, not the system, is to blame.
This past summer, I saw a movie called The Secret, which touts an idea called “the law of attraction”. The law of attraction states that… dramatic music please … our thoughts influence reality (that’s the secret). Put another way, what you attract to yourself is a manifestation of what you think. Think about being rich, and you’ll be rich. Think about having sex with lots of alter boys, and you’ll have sex with lots of alter boys. It’s that simple. Another premise of The Secret is that you really can have it all; we live in a world of infinite possibilities, so there’s no limit to what you can achieve. So don’t sell yourself short by thinking mere millionaire thoughts when you could be thinking gazillionaire thoughts. Why limit your potential?
The implications of The Secret philosophy are that you can’t blame anyone but yourself for being poor or for being obese or for being depressed or for being an addict or for contracting aids. On one level, the idea has merit. Of course our thoughts and attitudes influence what happens to us and of course the individual has some responsibility for his/her condition. But to suggest that ONLY our thoughts influence what happens to us is absurd. For one thing, our thoughts are influenced by our environments—environments we didn’t create by ourselves. Moreover, we don’t live on an island. If I choose to rape an alter boy, it isn’t because the altar boy was thinking about being raped. It’s because I gave him no choice but to be raped. Likewise, I can’t very well visualize being a millionaire if another New Ager trumps my wish by visualizing ownership of all the money in the world. In an interdependent universe, we can’t have without taking; we can’t realize without limiting. We can’t have it all.
I know. That’s pretty obvious. Painfully obvious, in fact. Yet The Secret and the book that inspired it have made millions of dollars. Larry King and thousands of other non-retarded adults claim that it changed their lives for the better. Sequels abound. Certified teachers of The Secret’s doctrine are ubiquitous. The public, it seems, is eating this stuff up. Are people really this adolescent in their thinking?
I should be surprised. But I’m not. The law of attraction is no more ridiculous than the mythology endorsed by most religions, certainly no more absurd than the Joseph Smith story the Mormons tell, and it reiterates what all mainstream ideology is intended to reiterate: rebellion should always be personal and private rather than political; if you desire self-realization then distance yourself from social engagement and criticism.
Case in point number one: the obesity epidemic. Currently about one in four Americans is estimated to be obese and the number is rising at an alarming rate. Thanks to the Mass Media, we know exactly who to blame for the problem—ourselves. We eat too much fatty foods and we don’t exercise enough. And the solution is equally as simple: diet and exercise. That’s all there is to it. What we don’t hear about, though, are the studies linking obesity to metabolism changes brought on by industrial chemicals. Nor do we hear much about the limited dietary options available to Americans in poverty or the accelerated puberty brought about by steroids in meat and dairy products or the potentially adaptive value of extra weight in certain polluted environments or the multi-generational effects of a high-fat diet during pregnancy. And I’m not surprised that we don’t hear about it. We don’t hear this kind of information because it's unsettling. Hearing it might require that we take social action—that we develop our social selves and not merely our private reified selves.
There isn’t a calculated conspiracy to conceal the truth about obesity. The truth about obesity, like the truth about immigration (see last post) or the truth about Islam (that its doctrine advocates terrorism) or the truth about Mormonism (not too dissimilar from Islam) or the truth about addiction (that it’s inevitable as well as necessary in a consumer capitalistic world) or the truth about The Secret (that it endorses an obvious contradiction), is in plain sight if you want to see it. The truth is that obesity is a creation of the System as much as it’s a creation of the individual. And that’s not what people want to hear. If I were obese, I’d much rather hear that my problem can be solved through diet and exercise than acknowledge that I can’t solve the problem at all (my genes/hormones don’t allow it) or that I can’t solve the problem unilaterally—that I can’t be cured until the whole system is cured.
The media is a business, and, as such, they’re going to tell people what they want to hear, not what they need to hear. To tell people what they need to hear, i.e. the truth, is, after all, an extreme act of arrogance. It isn’t arrogant to lay the blame for obesity and poverty on the victims—on those deemed lower than or equal to you on the social ladder—but to take on the system itself or its elite caretakers is the highest form of hubris imaginable. So we use the concept of accountability to brow beat victims but not to challenge the status quo. We, in essence, set up a substitute form of rebellion—escape—not to mention a substitute individual identity--so as to tolerate our lack of real freedom, thus preserving the existing social order. Naturally then, by challenging the social order, you set yourself above all those confined to its borders, when all you intended was to stand outside it.
And when it comes to liberation, the philosophy of The Secret ought to be embraced; we shouldn’t limit ourselves. There’s enough genuine freedom for everyone—not the freedom to do as you please, even if it includes the violation of others, but the freedom to self-actualize—to, as René Dubos has suggested, realize "actual biological necessities such as quiet, both interior and exterior private spaces, independence, and initiative". The current forms of liberation are limited to private forms of temporary escape—not to the betterment or the realization of the self but to the negation of conscious involvement.
So of course we find it arrogant beyond belief when someone challenges the system. When we challenge the system, we’re asserting our political selves, without which honest self actualization is impossible. Put another way, we’re asserting our greatness. As Desmond Tutu has said, “it isn’t inadequacy that we most fear but greatness—not the darkness but the light. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure”; we fear that by claiming our full potential as individuals—our potential in the public as well as private spheres—we distance ourselves from the human race altogether. Since we’re unable, or afraid, to see humanity as anything more than the system that includes it—as anything more than a bounded and easy-to-comprehend concept—we fail to create an environment in which our better, more natural, mysterious, and genuine selves can exist. And so we use responsibility--the word responsibility, at least--to deny responsibility. We tout the doctrine of individual accountability while accusing the truly accountable--the ones who challenge the real source of the problem--of being arrogant and judmental. The last thing the system can tolerate is individuals asserting their power.
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It [the publicity of self actualization in Western culture] isolates the individual from the one dimension where he could 'find himself': from his political existence, which is at the core of his entire existence. Instead, it encourages non-conformity and letting-go in ways which leave the real engines of repression in the society entirely intact, which even strengthen these engines by substituting the satisfactions of private, and personal rebellion for a more than private and personal, and therefore more authentic, opposition. Herbert Marcuse
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The “cult of accountability” drives me crazy. It’s so easy to ascribe all ill to individuals (just like in the immigration debate) rather than a system. Not surprisingly, following your logic, the system teaches us not to criticize the leaders the stewards of the system—that’s blaspheme by damn. You get at the central issue which finally compelled me to distance myself from the Mormon institution. For years I’ve tried to preserve my space within Mormonism by saying just what you start your post with, “I love the church but there are some people who get extreme, who are conservative, who abuse their power, etc.” While driving to work one morning I realized with complete and utter force that it was exactly the opposite: what I love and care about in Mormonism are the people not the institution. In fact I’d long given up any literal belief in the institution and had only held on for the people and rituals.
But interestingly while JS’s rebellion started as personal it became quite political and subversive. JS raised a militia and controlled religious and civilian life. His original vision (not the First vision) was quite utopian and very radical. Of course those roots have long been suppressed and hidden up. And certainly you are right that the way the JS story is used today supports the ideology of rebellion as personal. Any rebellion against the system is sin. Within this frame dissonance and questioning can’t be seen as productive. As you say, “Naturally then, by challenging the social order, you set yourself above all those confined to its borders, when all you intended was to stand outside it.”
Here you express exactly what I’ve felt within Mormonism. Recently I’ve taken steps to move “outside” of the borders and restrictions and borders of Mormonism, but this has clearly been seen by many others, especially those in leadership, as an arrogant move to place myself “above” everyone else. There’s barely any room to move laterally within the community—one is in or out. I actually can understand, alluding to our conversation at HH’s place, why a community may need this kind of structuring as it creates clear boundaries and comfort (I do think this is ok and necessary for a time and for certain people). But it seems to me that as a community matures it should/must allow for border crossers, blurred lines, and rhizomatic structuring. If not the community will lose those individuals who need to explore their, as you say, “mysterious” selves; it will lose its creative energy, in Mormonism it will lose the creative power of JS which brought it about.
This reminds me of Robert Bly’s wild man in Iron John. In discussing western man’s disconnection with the wild man, Bly cites Rumi: “Everyone who is calm and sensible is insane.” The institution literally becomes insane creating a rigid insane “logic” of good and evil, right and wrong, self-actualization, freedom, and “individual accountability.”
HOly Shit Batman!
"Simultaneously, our authentic self is buried beneath a pile of false needs and false hopes and the status quo is protected. The victim, not the system, is to blame." --- I like this very much. But what is the "authentic self?" Is there a self that could be revealed without the environments coercive control? Or is it the coercion (or forms of coercion) that need to be analyzed? In this case, the coercion comes from the social group (religious group).
"Are people really this adolescent in their thinking?" -- Yup. I am convinced that what is lacking is the ability to "doubt" (How's that ron?). What our institutions do is give students asnwers rather than teaching them to question, evluate, and conclude for themselves. It really is a mental slavery embedded in our system of education and socialization. Few overcome it.
"Hearing it might require that we take social action—that we develop our social selves and not merely our private reified selves."--- And there it is... Freud said that "most people do not want to change, for it would require taking resonbility, and most people persist in their pathology for the simple fear of taking responsaiblity." AS in your example, the LDS people give errors and responsiblity to individuals and thus deny that the "gospel" may be in error. It protects the cognitive dissonance from eating them alive (that and prozac).
"We tout the doctrine of individual accountability while accusing the truly accountable--the ones who challenge the real source of the problem--as being arrogant and judmental."--- Zactly. Look to the environment for the controlling conditions and then change the controlling conditions. HOw BF Skinner of you my good man!
YOu really ought to publish this one. It is quite good!!
Trav
Hey Ron,
I knew you were rethinking some things about your role in the church, but I had no idea you’d taken it that far. Considering all that you have invested, I’m sure it hasn’t been easy. As a radical who strongly values and senses the need for community, I can certainly sympathize with your situation (and the hostility you might be dealing with).
What you said about a community needing to “allow for border crossers, blurred lines and rhizomatic structuring” strikes me as right on—a society that nurtures the best of both worlds: intimate community as well as creative self-exploration. And of course you’re right about the system being insane. I haven’t read Bly, but R.D. Laing deals a lot with that theme. He goes so far as to suggest that certain forms of schizophrenia might be the only “sane” means of relating to the insane system-corrupted environments some people live in.
You said “I actually can understand, alluding to our conversation at HH’s place, why a community may need this kind of structuring as it creates clear boundaries and comfort (I do think this is ok and necessary for a time and for certain people).”
I can understand the benefits a linear structure might offer to a community’s coherence, but I’m not sure how it might benefit certain people, other than offering a safer place for certain idiosyncratic types of self-growth and awareness to occur. Are you saying that some people need this type of structure in place of a rhizomatically structured community or that, in lieu of a better option, some people can benefit from what a linear community offers—make the best of it, so to speak? If you mean the former, I would suggest that the very needs that might be met by a linear community wouldn’t exist in a world that was hierarchy-free. Then again, that isn’t the world we live in, is it?
Hey Trav,
I can’t believe you’re calling me a Skinnerian (and an arrogant one at that, no?). Be careful or I’ll have to bring out the Dennet.
You wrote: But what is the "authentic self?" Is there a self that could be revealed without the environment’s coercive control?
Short answer: no. The self and the environment are interdependent. At the same time, there are, I believe, “natural needs” that aren’t met by certain environments. So the “authentic self” I refer to is a self that is fully realized—i.e. a self that has its natural needs satisfied and which doesn’t feel alienated or abstracted from its surroundings. Also, I wouldn’t use the word “coercive” or “control” when referring to the environment’s influence on the self. Since, for me, the “natural” environment and self aren’t independent of one another, the one can’t exert control over the other. Only artificial environments can do that. (And I, of course, realize that I need to define my terms here, but to do so would require more time and energy than I have available right now—so a more detailed clarification will likely wait for another post).
Later Amigo!
Travis, I just love how you said this:
AS in your example, the LDS people give errors and responsiblity to individuals and thus deny that the "gospel" may be in error. It protects the cognitive dissonance from eating them alive.
Cognitive disssonace eating one alive--that's right on and it can eat one alive. I've felt like I was being eaten alive. Psychologically, and now I'm responding to Shane's response, we do not deal well with cognitive dissonance. Certainly one can make an argument that our very society and linear structures create this inablity but as you say, Shane, that's not the world we live in.
I guess I'm just not comfortable telling someone who isn't interested in cognitive dissonance and may not be able to work through it and maintain sanity that they should indeed embrace ambiguity, etc. I think of the many grandmothers in my life. These were/are (one's still alive) great women in their own way, but none of them was/is prepared in any way shape or form to deal with ambiguity.
Sure maybe the system created this problem but how do we leap frog over these people. Plus I still believe enough in agency to think that even with different more sane systems *some* people will choose the comfort of a linear system. And I'm just not sure I'm ready to deny that choice, ready to write them off. Within that context some of these people are, I think, better off with a religion or some other linear dogmatic system.
While it's true, Ron, that some people may not be able to work through their cognitive dissonance, I'm not sure that justifies the existence of the institutions in question. In other words, I don't think we need to leap frog over these people at all. In my mind, you don't need a linear/hierarchical institution to meet the needs of people who want certainty. It seems to me that the linear structures of institutions develop as a means of preserving institutional power rather than to nurture a particular belief (you can still believe in Santa, for example, without belonging to a hierarchical institution).
Moreover, I’m not sure I would agree with your assessment that certain people aren’t equipped to deal with cognitive dissonance. I grant, there were people I worked with in the prison system who seemed to require certainty and who seemed to benefit from the security and clear choices offered by religion, but, in the long run, at least in terms of recidivism, those perceived benefits, whatever they were, didn’t precipitate any productive change. It may have enabled them to tolerate their suffering a little more, but it didn’t lead them to change their lives in ways that might have improved their condition (and isn’t the acceptance, rather than the termination, of suffering a direct by-product of religion?). In fact, of all the programs they have in the prison system, the only one proven to reduce recidivism is the educational program, which invariably, in my experience, increases cognitive dissonance. What I’m saying is that the need for certainty isn’t natural; it’s a method for adapting to unnatural circumstances that doesn’t, in the long run, really work. And our institutions don’t really satisfy the need for certainty; they simply make the circumstances from which the need arose more tolerable. Put another way, the institutions maintain the insanity.
Finally, and this goes back to what I said at HH’s place, I don’t think the lessening of cognitive dissonance is really what drives religious faith. I think it’s the longing for community—which, unfortunately, isn’t allowed in our culture without concessions to self-realization—that really makes linear institutions possible. When I think of Grandma, for instance, I don’t understand her religious involvement to be strongly based on ideology. I think the paradigm the church offers is comforting because it’s shared—because it creates a standard social reference point that unites people—not because it keeps her existential angst at bay. I could be wrong, though. At any rate, Grandma’s beliefs aren’t really a threat to me—no more than my nephew’s belief in Santa Clause—but her tithing, her volunteering, etc. might be threatening to the degree that they support an institution I deem oppressive. (And I think her "greatness", as you say, wouldn't be lessened if she didn't have the Mormon church).
Sorry it's been so long since I stopped in; this is a discussion I'm really into. I can't say much now becuase I have an improv practice to go to, but I will (or would like to; how's that for committal?). In the meantime, Shane, thanks for your messages and I hope your holidays were good. I am doing pretty well and Sara is, too, and it's really freaking cold here, finally, which is nice.
I'll try to be a better correspondent... and maybe a better blogger, myself. Other people's blogs (OPB? Who's down with OPB?) have been inspiring me lately...
Lisa
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